How long will the baby take to come out?
I asked the doctor almost giving up all hope of a normal delivery
The doctor said ‘It will take some more time and I need to be patient and keep trying”
Being in labour for almost 22 hours I get to hear about patience. I am almost at the stage of giving up when I get another dose of injection to increase the contraction.
Woah I wasn’t prepared for this one at all because I thought the worst is over. Hell no, it’s here giving me relentless pain. Seeing me wreathing with pain my mom decided to ditch the normal delivery and declared C-section. My husband was convinced with her decision and there was no looking back.
Within seconds I was in the Operation theatre, hand in hand with my better half I got ready to welcome you with open arms and a twinkle in the eye.
That twinkle in the eye disappeared the moment the anaesthetic got me ready for an epidural. I screamed and looked exhausted.
What’s with the baby doctor? How long will the bub take now? I was impatient and almost willing to go fetch him out myself.
The doctor laughed and said “The baby kinda refuses to come out and is enjoying the warmth inside”
Muzzafer tried diverting my mind and spoke about something that was highly engaging (I have no clue what it was) and amidst our conversation,
WE HEARD THE FIRST CRY….IT WAS BlISS…..
THE SWEETEST VOICE I HEARD TILL DATE.
It is, in fact, the first time that I enjoyed the sound of someone cry. I Swear!
I was THRILLED to hear the voice of my OWN PRODUCTION, ELATED to see the success of project baby on which I worked endlessly
TEARS rolled down my cheeks while I was THANKING THE ALMIGHTY
We both were so engrossed in the NEWFOUND JOY that we forgot to ask whether it’s a “BOY” or a “GIRL”
We totally forgot about it 😀
Well, I wanted a baby girl and all through my nine months of pregnancy I prayed for one and asked everyone to do the same. And here when the baby has arrived we forgot to ask the gender. Like Seriously!
The doctor smiled and said “It seems you don’t want to know if it’s pink or blue. That’s when it struck us and I immediately asked
Its a girl right? Almost sure that the answer will be a big yes.
Well, It’s a boy, she said
We were least interested in the gender at that point in time, the only thing that mattered was that ” You Arrived” It was a moment of JOY
We both were patiently waiting for the doctor to place you in our arms but it was taking a tad bit long. We could hear you cry while the paediatric who was summoned was checking you. We were clueless about all that was was going on.
I frantically asked the doctor if everything was OK. That’s when she said there is a birthmark and that’s what they were checking to see if its something severe or just a birthmark.
We got scared but was immediately comforted by the paediatric that it’s normal and handed over the baby to us.
Your dad and I looked at you with teary-eyes and kissed you. We took our first selfie with a big smile. That moment was priceless, we both felt we delivered on life’s most difficult project successfully.
Your dad I guess went mad, he was jumping around with excitement, and couldn’t believe you have arrived, and that you were so tiny. He smiled endlessly with teary eyes and rushed out to share the news with everyone.
You were soon taken to the cradle to get you ready to meet your family who was eagerly waiting for you.
Your dad rushed to where you were to do some rituals, he put a tinge of honey in your mouth as per the tradition and said the azaan in your ears.
Your Grandmoms and Masi were waiting for you in the room and several others were frantically calling to see how junior looks.
By the time I came out, you had already met others. I smiled at you while you were enjoying the lullaby in your dad’s arms. It was after everyone had seen you, and the pictures were clicked that I got some time with you.
I knew you were a charmer the moment the nursed placed you in my arms. As I held you, our eyes met and at that moment I could feel my heart expand. I just can’t explain the love my darling. I have no idea where it comes from but it’s strong, its powerful.
I could feel that instant connect with you. I had a horrifying 24 hours before you arrived but all of it seemed nothing compared to the joy I had of holding you and being by your side
it was magical, truly magical.
While the rest of the family was busy making phone calls, you and I were bonding for a lifetime. I spoke to you just the way I did all of nine months and you smiled. I guess you were enjoying the comfort of my arms and at the same time looked around to see how the world looks like.
Your dad joined us and we sang to you and shared our happiness with you umpteen times assuming you could understand all of it.
Soon the time came for you to be fed and the nurse took you to the cradle and asked me to take some rest.
Well, It was the most beautiful day of my life. Your first breath indeed took ours away.
Thank You, Z for coming into our lives and making it beautiful 💗Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this